5 Reasons Why Polyamorous Relationship Is Not For You

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The word polyamory means many or multiple loves. It’s typically used when people have multiple partners.

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People who identify as polyamorous are usually seeking a lasting emotional bond just as much as multiple sexual partners.

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Polyamorous folks can enjoy swinging, friends with benefits, one-night affairs, etc.

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So are you thinking that having multiple long-lasting lovers sounds amazing?

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Here are 5 reasons why Polyamory might not be right for you.

You’re Just Trying To Save a Failing Relationship

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This is one of the most common reasons why couples open up their relationship. And it’s not a good idea.

You’re Not Great at Articulating Boundaries

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If you’re interested in polyamory you have to be ready for some serious emotional work.

Can't Sit With Jealousy

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The thing is, you have to be willing to sit with your jealousy and listen to it and communicate what you’re feeling.

Can't Sit With Jealousy

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And if all of that sounds like way too much, then polyamory isn’t right for you.

You're In It For Benefits

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If you know you’re mostly looking for sex, then be up-front about it. And the term polyamory probably isn’t right for you.

You’re Feeling Pressured

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Going into something you’re not ready for or not interested in isn’t healthy.

You’re Feeling Pressured

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In other words, I hope you do want to have the best possible relationships with others.

You’re Feeling Pressured

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But you get to decide what that looks like for you and what work you need to do to make it happen.